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“I strongly recommend this book. Aaron shares his unique style
of de-armoring that you will not find anywhere else. This book
will show you the secrets for to how to open a body, the way
Aaron would open mine. Even a practice session with Aaron
would leave me in a state of no-mind afterwards: to just be,
glow, and buzz with energy from my sex area into my every
cell. I felt more feminine, soft, and sensual . . . the sexual me
fully alive. It has been a pleasure to be a steady guide and encouragement in his growth as a professional in this field, where
trusted, quality, male workers are scarce. I look forward for
more in years to come.”
—Susanne Roursgaard, Founder of the Gaia Method
“Aaron’s work is outstanding. I have been working and teaching in the field of sacred sexuality and conscious relating for
many years. I have received countless sessions and worked with
many different people. My nose for quality is top notch, and
this is what Aaron is: Top notch. If you EVER get the chance
to work with him, GO FOR IT. He’s highly skilled, respective,
conscious, and his hands are absolutely beyond magic. This
book will show you how to do the same.”
—Sanna Sanita, Swedens Leading Sacred
Sexuality & Consciousness Teacher
I am a sex and relationship coach, so I’m in this industry and do a lot of this work, but I really admire Dr. Saida and Aaron, both their work individually, and I was super excited when I saw them come together! I thought the communication, the imaging, the seriousness of it was awesome. It was so much fun. We laughed, we had fun, we were turned on. It was great. We already had a really amazing sex class, so why would I want to take this class? Everything’s already great. But I think that’s the beauty of our sexuality and the depth and the expansion that can happen, because there’s always more to learn, there’s always more ways to grow.
Amanda & Mark Testa
Sex & Relationship Coach & Partner
[Her] One of the things that I love most about the experience were the cues that we received about what to be paying attention to internally. It wasn’t something I had really thought about before. And using those cues deepened my sensation and also made me feel more present in the moment with my partner. [Him] I had forgotten how much hearing her voice and hearing her breathe, how much it turns me on and impacts me and just I feel it. And I agree with you, the breathing exercise, everything that we did brought us more deeply into the experience and we have had a wonderful and fulfilling sex life prior to the coaching and it was really nice to experience something that deepened it and kind of engaged us more.
Daniel & Jocelyn Johnson
Author of God Given Gift
We had the pleasure and privilege of working with Dr. Saida and Aaron, with extraordinary results! We’ve done a lot of exploration of sexuality, but there’s something about their professional, kind, comfortable presence that allowed us to reach into our own bodies, and each other’s bodies, and really release some more energy that has afforded us a lot of pleasure in the last couple of days. Dr. Saida and Aaron are the most profound, sacred sexuality instructors that we’ve encountered, and having had the opportunity to write a number of books in this field, and meet a lot of people. Their level of integrity, their level of comfort in their own sexuality and bodies, their deep wisdom, their profound expertise, and clean energy, and their skillfulness is just unparalleled among anybody we’ve ever met.
Doug & Rachel Abrams, MD
Authors of the MultiOrgasmic Series
As a healing practitioner, I really prize myself on creating a lot of safety. I do a lot of trauma recovery work with people and so I have very high standards of safety and what it means to hold space. Everything from their body language to their tone of voice and the questions they ask and their curiosity and their profound collective knowledge immediately started to put me at ease. I found myself able to drop my guard pretty immediately which of course I was not expecting to be able to do and from there we were able to do some really deep work and a profoundly short amount of time.
Lulu Bonner
Lulu’s Chocolate, Chi Nei Tsang Practitioner
I had a session with Aaron, and I found that session to be incredibly useful. His integrity was very strong, and the boundaries were very clear, and his capacity and willingness to go with what was happening in the moment rather than something that was pre-prescribed or having an agenda. It was exactly what I needed in the moment, and it was very safe. I found Aaron to be incredibly trustworthy, which also means a lot, and some things shifted for me that I wasn’t even anticipating. I definitely recommend any sessions with Aaron individually.
Barbara Collier
Trauma Therapist
Finally a course with detailed instructions, very sober, very noble, but very erotically intelligent tips and tricks on how to enhance pleasure with a male partner. I really am very fond of Aaron, I think he’s so pure and so full of heart in his approach to erotic intelligence and I think he’s giving the world another great gift!
Kirsten Stendevad
Author, Feminine Leadership
You already know that attraction isn’t just about what happens in the bedroom—it starts way before that. But if you’ve ever wondered why some people naturally spark instant chemistry while others struggle to be noticed, this conversation is going to change everything for you.
In this free preview, we sit down with James Marshall, founder of The Natural Lifestyles, to break down the art and science of seduction—without sleazy tactics, cheap pickup lines, or manipulation. This conversation will reframe everything you thought you knew about attraction, confidence, and dating—and it’s only the beginning.
Holiday Quickies – Your Key to Staying Connected
The holidays can be magical, but also overwhelming. Between family chaos and endless to-do lists, it’s easy to feel disconnected from your partner and yourself.
In this episode, we explore the quickie—a simple, spontaneous way to reignite passion, reduce stress, and stay connected, even during the busiest times.
What’s in it for you?
Practical tips to bring back playfulness and intimacy.
How quickies can shift stress into ease in minutes.
Why they’re about more than sex—they’re about lasting connection.
If you’re craving more spark this holiday season, listen now and discover how just a few intentional moments can transform your relationship and your mood.
In this episode of Embodied Love, I tackle one of the most pervasive yet rarely discussed issues in sexual health: genital numbness and dissociation. If you’ve ever felt disconnected from your body during intimacy, struggled to experience pleasure, or dealt with unexplained genital pain, this conversation is for you. Together, we explore the reasons why so many of us unknowingly train ourselves into numbness—and, more importantly, how we can reverse it.
This episode is personal and powerful because it shines a light on the real culprits behind sexual numbness, from trauma to cultural conditioning, bad sex education, and beyond. I also offer simple, actionable steps you can start using today to reconnect with your body and experience the pleasure you deserve. Whether you’re dealing with past sexual trauma or simply feel “numb,” this episode is packed with insights and practical tools to help you heal.
If you’re ready to take back your pleasure and feel more connected, alive, and empowered in your body, this is an episode you won’t want to miss.
Join us in this captivating episode of the EmbodiedLove Podcast as we explore the transformative power of Eros in leadership. Discover how integrating sensuality and authority can elevate your leadership to new heights. With insights from Pamela von Sabljar, this discussion will empower you to lead with passion, authenticity, and a dynamic presence that inspires and motivates.
Tune in now to transform how you lead and inspire with sensuality and strength.
If you’re curious about fisting or eager to learn how to experience orgasms that can last for hours, this episode is for you. We discuss the physical and emotional benefits, practical tips for getting started, and the importance of creating a safe and comfortable environment. By understanding these practices, you can unlock new levels of pleasure and connection with your partner.
Whether you’re a seasoned explorer or just beginning to expand your sexual horizons, our compassionate and knowledgeable approach ensures you feel supported and informed every step of the way. Join us as we share personal stories, expert insights, and transformative techniques to elevate your intimate experiences.
Tune in and discover how to enhance your sexual pleasure and deepen your connection with your partner.
The topic of orgasms remains an intriguing one. Did you know that there are over 63 ways to orgasm? Or that there might be something that lies beyond? We’re here to share this with you as well as how to get there. Orgasm is a sensitive subject, sometimes one rife with frustration and disappointment, other times one of boredom or mediocrity–yet it doesn’t have to be like this. We leave you with an important understanding of relaxed arousal and the importance of simmering your pleasure on a daily basis.
We kick things off with Taoist practices that have the power to maintain and even intensify passion over time. You’ll hear firsthand accounts and actionable tips that you can start using immediately to bring more fire into your love life.
Next, we discuss the delicate balance between professional life and personal intimacy. Learn practical strategies to manage your responsibilities while still making time for the love and connection that matters most.
Lastly, we delve into the emotional depths of your relationship. Discover how to connect on a deeper level with your partner, fostering a sense of closeness and intimacy that goes beyond the physical.
This episode is a must-listen if you’re looking to revitalize your relationship, deepen your emotional connection, and keep the passion burning bright. Tune in and transform your love life today!
In this episode of the EmbodiedLove Podcast, we dive into the heart of what keeps the passion alive in long-term relationships. Joined by the insightful and dynamic duo, Doug and Rachel Abrams, authors of the Multiorgasmic series, we explore the transformative practices and deep emotional connections that can reignite the spark in your relationship.
We kick things off with Taoist practices that have the power to maintain and even intensify passion over time. You’ll hear firsthand accounts and actionable tips that you can start using immediately to bring more fire into your love life.
Next, we discuss the delicate balance between professional life and personal intimacy. Learn practical strategies to manage your responsibilities while still making time for the love and connection that matters most.
Lastly, we delve into the emotional depths of your relationship. Discover how to connect on a deeper level with your partner, fostering a sense of closeness and intimacy that goes beyond the physical.
This episode is a must-listen if you’re looking to revitalize your relationship, deepen your emotional connection, and keep the passion burning bright. Tune in and transform your love life today!
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In these raw, soul-nourishing conversations, Aaron Michael and Dr. Saida open the door to the stories, science, and
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You can:
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You’ll also notice a few helpful tabs:
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