An extensive library of courses designed specifically for you to gain sexual confidence and capacity
- Changing How The World Makes Love
- Making Intimacy Simple
- How Sexual Wellness Is Meant To Be
YeahFap
Female - Helping with My Partner’s Pain+4
Your 21 Day challenge will give you a whole new approach and purpose for self-pleasuring. Instead of conditioning yourself to cum quickly, you’ll incrementally building up your lasting…
Send Her To God
I know you are here for a reason, and I think it’s amazing that you care about giving real pleasure to women. I hope you can start putting…
Embodied Consent
Female - Addressing Challenges as a Couple+8
Discover how your body’s truth sets you free: science-backed, taboo-smashing consent training for deeper trust, sovereignty, and sensual power.
9 Naughty Nights Mini-Course
Couple - Pain+5
Bring the spark back—this playful 9-night experience helps you and your partner reconnect, explore pleasure without pressure, and feel turned on by each other (and yourself) again
Men's Suction Sex Mini-Course
Female - Addressing Challenges as a Couple+5
I know you are here for a reason, and I think it’s amazing that you care about giving real pleasure to women. I hope you can start putting…
Suction Sex 2.0
Male - Giving Pleasure to My Partner
Suction Sex 2.0 is a complete, step-by-step training in how to transform cunnilingus from “technique and guesswork” into a responsive, embodied, and deeply connected experience. Instead of repeating…
Thriving During Challenges
Female - Increasing My Own Pleasure+1
21 day practical tips for calmness, immunity and boosting moral during challenging times.
The Sacred Courtesan
Female - Increasing My Own Pleasure
The Hidden Secrets Of Pleasure is a 5-Day Immersive Challenge lead by Dr. Saida Désilets that invites and supports women to explore more fully their own cultivation of…
Shameless Surrender
Female - Addressing Challenges as a Couple+2
The Art Of Melting Deeply Into Shameless Surrender
Sexy Menopause
Female - Overcoming My Own Pain
Do you believe, even in a small way, that menopause is the end of your sensual/sexual life?
Oxytocin and Relationships
Female - Increasing Mutual Pleasure as a Couple+1
Whether or not you are in a relationship or parenting, understanding what lies at the foundation of healthy bonding is essential for all conscious women.
Suction Sex Playshop Replay
Couple+8
Are you ready to up your game in the bedroom? Are you looking to take your intimacy to a whole new level of passion, sensation, and pure, unadulterated…
Body Ecstatic: 5-Day Challenge
Female - Increasing My Own Pleasure
Feel like you’ve lost your spark? This 5-day experience helps you shake off stress, get out of your head, and feel good—really good—in your body again.
Shameless Passion
Join us in this transformative 5-day course where we will dive deep into reclaiming your sensual confidence. This course is designed to help you reconnect with your body,…
The Art Of Succulent Business
Unlock the pleasure-fueled power inside your body to make bold, juicy decisions and build a business that turns you on as much as it turns you profitable.
ELU Foundation
Female - Overcoming My Own Pain
Discover how your body’s truth sets you free: science-backed, taboo-smashing consent training for deeper trust, sovereignty, and sensual power.
Magnetic Arts
Female - Increasing My Own Pleasure
A 6-week journey to reclaim your body, pleasure, and irresistible power.
ELU Foundation
0 of 17 lessons completed
Discover how your body’s truth sets you free: science-backed, taboo-smashing consent training for deeper trust, sovereignty, and sensual power.
Embodied Consent
0 of 37 lessons completed
Discover how your body’s truth sets you free: science-backed, taboo-smashing consent training for deeper trust, sovereignty, and sensual power.
Send Her To God
0 of 47 lessons completed
I know you are here for a reason, and I think it’s amazing that you care about giving real pleasure to women. I hope you can start putting things into practice and see the crazy results from just a little bit of work.
YeahFap
0 of 127 lessons completed
Your 21 Day challenge will give you a whole new approach and purpose for self-pleasuring. Instead of conditioning yourself to cum quickly, you’ll incrementally building up your lasting power by a minute a day.
Courses
Included in Free
9 Naughty Nights
0 of 25 lessons completed
No matter your current situation or experience, 9 Naughty Nights is designed to guide you on a journey to a more fulfilling, intimate, and pleasurable connection with your partner.
Included in Free
9 Naughty Nights Mini-Course
0 of 25 lessons completed
Bring the spark back—this playful 9-night experience helps you and your partner reconnect, explore pleasure without pressure, and feel turned on by each other (and yourself) again
Included in Free
Awakening Sensual Woman Mini-Course
0 of 25 lessons completed
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Why Most Of Us Feel Disconnected
No one ever taught you how to truly feel your body, deepen intimacy, and unlock effortless pleasure… Until now.
couples experience mismatched desire
women report low sexual desire; 26% report associate distress
men aged 40-70 report some degree of erectile diffifulty
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What makes us different
Our mission
Core Belief & Purpose
At the Embodied Love University, we believe in the sexual sovereignty, curiosity, and erotic intelligence within every individual. We believe in busting outdated frameworks that create neurosis or alienation from your own body, using a lighthearted, honest, and no-fluff approach to dispel misunderstandings. We act on these beliefs to live more connected to ourselves, our partners, and the world around us.
Unique Process
We achieve this by nurturing the unique erotic individuation process with profound respect. We make intimacy simple by providing effective, easy skill-learning through a secure, members-only platform designed to support a life-long adventure of healthy, robust, and satisfying relationships.
Result & Offer
Embodied Love is the industry leader in relationship, intimacy, and sexual education. We inspire clients to tap into their unlimited pleasure with our world-class, medically-endorsed, and clinically-proven courses. What we ultimately do is change the way the world makes love.
Real people, real results
What Will Your Story Be?
One of the most delicious things about Dr. Saida is her incredible life force and beauty. All of this passion pours from the pages of her book, inspiring her readers to open up to more and more of their own divine beauty. I love Saida and her incredible commitment to expanding pleasure on the planet!
Regena Thomashauer (aka Mama Gena)Creatrix & CEO of the School of Womanly Arts 
Aaron’s work is outstanding. I have been working and teaching in the field of sacred sexuality and conscious relating for many years and have received countless sessions and worked with many different people. My nose for quality is top notch, and this is what Aaron is: Top notch. If you EVER get the chance to work with him, GO FOR IT. He’s highly skilled, respective, conscious, and his hands are absolutely beyond magic. His book will show you how to do the same.
Swedens Leading Sacred Sexuality & Consciousness Teacher 
I had a session with Aaron, and I found that session to be incredibly useful. His integrity was very strong, and the boundaries were very clear, and his capacity and willingness to go with what was happening in the moment rather than something that was pre-prescribed or having an agenda. It was exactly what I needed in the moment, and it was very safe. I found Aaron to be incredibly trustworthy, which also means a lot, and some things shifted for me that I wasn’t even anticipating. I definitely recommend any sessions with Aaron individually.
Barbara CollierTrauma Therapist 
There was something about the authenticity and honesty in Aaron’s voice that interested my inner scientist, journalist, and therapist; moreover it whispered to the woman Signe. He had no ambitions, which gave me the unique experience to let go of control and judgement and allowed me to surrender. The experience was intense, a voyage into myself, to encounter any sensations that might arrive. He was like a Sherpa guide. With my own voice and breath, the pain transformed into pleasure. His touch gave me a compass that has set me off on a path to more tangible teaching and giving others this experience.
Signe BentzenFormer Head of The Danish Sexology Union, Couples Counselor, Author, Tantric Sexologist 
Dr. Saida demonstrates her genius for facilitating a rebuilding of the connection between our body, mind, heart and spirit. She is both a masterful educator and trusted counselor in bringing forth a brilliant method to both learn about and connect with one’s inner wisdom and consciousness. Moving far beyond simply toning the pelvic floor or stimulating arousable tissues, her EPSM Jade Egg practices are a powerful pathway toward self-understanding, self-acceptance and self-love.
Dr. Debra Wickman, FACOG 
Aaron is the kind of person you notice right away. He radiates passion, depth, joy, compassion, and love, and so does his work. What differentiates Aaron’s techniques from all others that I’ve tried, is his ability to make you feel so comfortable, safe and loved; while releasing old traumas, shame and tensions. He makes healing pleasurable, simple, and fun! I have tried a lot in this field of work, but I can truly say that I have met no other as warm hearted, skilled, and professional as Aaron. His approach and techniques can forever change your body and your life. Aaron takes so much knowledge and makes it come together in ways that seem easy and understandable for even newcomers to grasp.
Gry Dagmar Schødt Møberg,Therapist, Tantric Bodyworker, and Leadership Mentor 
Dr. Saida is a truly inspirational instructor and writer who lives what she teaches. You can’t help but feel your own sense of joy and self-love expand in her presence. She has an extraordinary ability to assist other women in finding their own passion and spiritual paths. She is a gift to us all.
Dr. Rachel Carlton AbramsCo-Author of The Multi-Orgasmic Woman & The Multi-Orgasmic Couple 
Finally a course with detailed instructions, very sober, very noble, but very erotically intelligent tips and tricks on how to enhance pleasure with a male partner. I really am very fond of Aaron, I think he’s so pure and so full of heart in his approach to erotic intelligence and I think he’s giving the world another great gift!
Kirsten StendevadAuthor, Feminine Leadership 
Dr. Saida Désilets is a lucid writer, a tender teacher, and a beautiful human being. When you encounter Saida you know what it is to feel truly alive.
Timothy Freke, Stand-up PhilosopherAuthor of Lucid Living & Soul Story 
As a healing practitioner, I really prize myself on creating a lot of safety. I do a lot of trauma recovery work with people and so I have very high standards of safety and what it means to hold space. Everything from their body language to their tone of voice and the questions they ask and their curiosity and their profound collective knowledge immediately started to put me at ease. I found myself able to drop my guard pretty immediately which of course I was not expecting to be able to do and from there we were able to do some really deep work and a profoundly short amount of time.
Lulu BonnerLulu’s Chocolate, Chi Nei Tsang Practitioner 
Dr. Saida has a classy, well-researched approach to the subject of sexuality and relationship which makes her work approachable for everyone who’s interested in exploring and embodying their Erotic Genius.
Joe PolishCreator of the Genius Network 
We had the pleasure and privilege of working with Dr. Saida and Aaron, with extraordinary results! We’ve done a lot of exploration of sexuality, but there’s something about their professional, kind, comfortable presence that allowed us to reach into our own bodies, and each other’s bodies, and really release some more energy that has afforded us a lot of pleasure in the last couple of days. Dr. Saida and Aaron are the most profound, sacred sexuality instructors that we’ve encountered, and having had the opportunity to write a number of books in this field, and meet a lot of people. Their level of integrity, their level of comfort in their own sexuality and bodies, their deep wisdom, their profound expertise, and clean energy, and their skillfulness is just unparalleled among anybody we’ve ever met.
Doug & Rachel Abrams, MDAuthors of the MultiOrgasmic Series 
I have had the privilege of attending Dr. Saida’s workshops on numerous occasions. She is an excellent motivator, instructor, and mentor. I highly recommend her services. She is professional, inspirational, and an absolute delight to learn from.
Charlie CantrellFilm Producer, Co-Author of Einstein The Smallest Stallion 
[Her] One of the things that I love most about the experience were the cues that we received about what to be paying attention to internally. It wasn’t something I had really thought about before. And using those cues deepened my sensation and also made me feel more present in the moment with my partner. [Him] I had forgotten how much hearing her voice and hearing her breathe, how much it turns me on and impacts me and just I feel it. And I agree with you, the breathing exercise, everything that we did brought us more deeply into the experience and we have had a wonderful and fulfilling sex life prior to the coaching and it was really nice to experience something that deepened it and kind of engaged us more.
Daniel & Jocelyn JohnsonAuthor of God Given Gift 
Aaron shares his unique style of de-armoring that you will not find anywhere else. A practice session with Aaron leaves me in a state of no-mind afterwards: to just be, glow, and buzz with energy from my sex area into my every cell. I felt more feminine, soft, and sensual . . . the sexual part of me fully alive. It has been a pleasure to be a steady guide and encouragement in his growth as a professional in this field, where trusted, quality, male workers are scarce.
Susanne RoursgaardFounder of the Gaia Method 
I am a sex and relationship coach, so I’m in this industry and do a lot of this work, but I really admire Dr. Saida and Aaron, both their work individually, and I was super excited when I saw them come together! I thought the communication, the imaging, the seriousness of it was awesome. It was so much fun. We laughed, we had fun, we were turned on. It was great. We already had a really amazing sex class, so why would I want to take this class? Everything’s already great. But I think that’s the beauty of our sexuality and the depth and the expansion that can happen, because there’s always more to learn, there’s always more ways to grow.
Amanda & Mark TestaSex & Relationship Coach & Partner 
Become an Explorer
Your love life, your intimacy, your pleasure—it’s time to take the first step.