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What If Everything You Thought About Love, Intimacy & Pleasure Was Wrong?

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Why Most Of Us Feel  Disconnected

No one ever taught you how to truly feel your body, deepen intimacy, and unlock effortless pleasure… Until now.

couples experience
mismatched desire

women report low sexual desire; 26% report associate distress

men aged 40-70 report some degree of erectile diffifulty

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What’s Missing From Your Love Life?

Increasing Your Bedroom IQ Requires Three Essential Elements:

Intimacy

Shared Communication

Intimacy is the impression we leave upon one another, and communication is the one constant for crafting the relationships we desire.

Relationship

Shared Values

Shared values are the foundation upon which our relations are secured and the compass for fueling the commitments that keep us united.

Sex

Shared Pleasure

Sex is the language of sacred union, and pleasure is the fuel that keeps us coming back together again for healthy, happy, highly satisfied relating.

If one of these is missing, your love life suffers. These are skills
that you can learn and master through a combination of solo & partnered practices.

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Our hidden potential

Here are the clinically tested & proven results from clients practicing our method:

Increase in sexual enjoyment

Increase in sexual satisfaction

Increase in sexual closeness

Increase in sex drive

Increase in sex drive

Increase in sexual communication

Increase in sexual enjoyment

Increase in sexual satisfaction

Increase in sexual closeness

Increase in sex drive

Increase in sex drive

Increase in sexual communication

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The Embodied Love University Experience

A Step-by-Step Journey to Your Transformation

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Instant access to the 5 foundational practices. Start feeling the shift immediately

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The Embodied Love University Experience

A Step-by-Step Journey to Your Transformation

Scroll Here To View The 5 Step Journey To Your Transformation

1

Create profile

It's FREE & it takes seconds to get started.

2

Personalize your
profile

A curated experience based on your personalized profile—tailored to your needs.

3

Launch your journey

Instant access to the 5 foundational practices. Start feeling the shift immediately

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Learn more

Unlock your first mini-course & access our entire podcast library

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Play more 
& win!

The longer you stay, the more you play, the more you unlock

Join ELU for FREE to start you transformation today

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Personalized Learning for Maximum Impact

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Personal life

Optimize your intimate life to unlock your full pleasure potential. Gain access to practices, live coaching, and expert teachings tailored to YOU.
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Professional life

Access research and protocols to become certified in Embodied Psychosexual Training. For therapists, coaches, and professionals wanting to integrate this groundbreaking work.

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What makes us different

Our mission

Core Belief & Purpose

At the Embodied Love University, we believe in the sexual sovereignty, curiosity, and erotic intelligence within every individual. We believe in busting outdated frameworks that create neurosis or alienation from your own body, using a lighthearted, honest, and no-fluff approach to dispel misunderstandings. We act on these beliefs to live more connected to ourselves, our partners, and the world around us.

Unique Process

We achieve this by nurturing the unique erotic individuation process with profound respect. We make intimacy simple by providing effective, easy skill-learning through a secure, members-only platform designed to support a life-long adventure of healthy, robust, and satisfying relationships.

Result & Offer

Embodied Love is the industry leader in relationship, intimacy, and sexual education. We inspire clients to tap into their unlimited pleasure with our world-class, medically-endorsed, and clinically-proven courses. What we ultimately do is change the way the world makes love.

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We have multiple levels of membership to serve different desires and appetites. Our EXPLORER level is free to anyone who has an open mind and a valid email address.

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Revolutionary 5 Foundation Video Training
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Extensive Library of Mini-Trainings
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Earn points with every Engagement
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ELU bot Campus Guide
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Embodied Love Podcast (20-30 minutes long episodes)
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Invitations to participate in Special LIVE Events with a members discount

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Curious Explorer

$ 9.97
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Revolutionary 5 Foundation Video Training
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Extensive Library of Mini-Trainings
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Earn points with every Engagement
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ELU bot Campus Guide
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Explicit version of the Embodied Love Podcast (1-1.5 hour long episodes)
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Invitations to participate in Special LIVE Events with a members discount
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Ability to submit requests/questions

$ 9.97/month

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$ 27
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Revolutionary 5 Foundation Video Training
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Extensive Library of Mini-Trainings
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Earn points with every Engagement
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ELU bot Campus Guide
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Explicit version of the Embodied Love Podcast (1-1.5 hour long episodes)
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Invitations to participate in Special LIVE Events with a members discount
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Ability to submit requests/questions
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Community with 1 Live Practice Zoom call/month, 1 Live Q&A/month, access to all archived calls, ability to post & interact with other members.
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LOVE LAB where you are assigned both a personal and a partnered practice to play with for the month + a LIVE ZOOM Q&A

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Real people, real results

What Will Your Story Be?

One of the most delicious things about Dr. Saida is her incredible life force and beauty. All of this passion pours from the pages of her book, inspiring her readers to open up to more and more of their own divine beauty. I love Saida and her incredible commitment to expanding pleasure on the planet!
Regena Thomashauer (aka Mama Gena)Creatrix & CEO of the School of Womanly Arts
Regena Thomashauer (aka Mama Gena)
Aaron’s work is outstanding. I have been working and teaching in the field of sacred sexuality and conscious relating for many years and have received countless sessions and worked with many different people. My nose for quality is top notch, and this is what Aaron is: Top notch. If you EVER get the chance to work with him, GO FOR IT. He’s highly skilled, respective, conscious, and his hands are absolutely beyond magic. His book will show you how to do the same.
Swedens Leading Sacred Sexuality & Consciousness Teacher
Swedens Leading Sacred Sexuality & Consciousness Teacher
I had a session with Aaron, and I found that session to be incredibly useful. His integrity was very strong, and the boundaries were very clear, and his capacity and willingness to go with what was happening in the moment rather than something that was pre-prescribed or having an agenda. It was exactly what I needed in the moment, and it was very safe. I found Aaron to be incredibly trustworthy, which also means a lot, and some things shifted for me that I wasn’t even anticipating. I definitely recommend any sessions with Aaron individually.
Barbara CollierTrauma Therapist
Barbara Collier
There was something about the authenticity and honesty in Aaron’s voice that interested my inner scientist, journalist, and therapist; moreover it whispered to the woman Signe. He had no ambitions, which gave me the unique experience to let go of control and judgement and allowed me to surrender. The experience was intense, a voyage into myself, to encounter any sensations that might arrive. He was like a Sherpa guide. With my own voice and breath, the pain transformed into pleasure. His touch gave me a compass that has set me off on a path to more tangible teaching and giving others this experience.
Signe BentzenFormer Head of The Danish Sexology Union, Couples Counselor, Author, Tantric Sexologist
Signe Bentzen
Dr. Saida demonstrates her genius for facilitating a rebuilding of the connection between our body, mind, heart and spirit. She is both a masterful educator and trusted counselor in bringing forth a brilliant method to both learn about and connect with one’s inner wisdom and consciousness. Moving far beyond simply toning the pelvic floor or stimulating arousable tissues, her EPSM Jade Egg practices are a powerful pathway toward self-understanding, self-acceptance and self-love.
Dr. Debra Wickman, FACOG
Dr. Debra Wickman, FACOG
Aaron is the kind of person you notice right away. He radiates passion, depth, joy, compassion, and love, and so does his work. What differentiates Aaron’s techniques from all others that I’ve tried, is his ability to make you feel so comfortable, safe and loved; while releasing old traumas, shame and tensions. He makes healing pleasurable, simple, and fun! I have tried a lot in this field of work, but I can truly say that I have met no other as warm hearted, skilled, and professional as Aaron. His approach and techniques can forever change your body and your life. Aaron takes so much knowledge and makes it come together in ways that seem easy and understandable for even newcomers to grasp.
Gry Dagmar Schødt Møberg,Therapist, Tantric Bodyworker, and Leadership Mentor
Gry Dagmar Schødt Møberg,
Dr. Saida is a truly inspirational instructor and writer who lives what she teaches. You can’t help but feel your own sense of joy and self-love expand in her presence. She has an extraordinary ability to assist other women in finding their own passion and spiritual paths. She is a gift to us all.
Dr. Rachel Carlton AbramsCo-Author of The Multi-Orgasmic Woman & The Multi-Orgasmic Couple
Dr. Rachel Carlton Abrams
Finally a course with detailed instructions, very sober, very noble, but very erotically intelligent tips and tricks on how to enhance pleasure with a male partner. I really am very fond of Aaron, I think he’s so pure and so full of heart in his approach to erotic intelligence and I think he’s giving the world another great gift!
Kirsten StendevadAuthor, Feminine Leadership
Kirsten Stendevad
Dr. Saida Désilets is a lucid writer, a tender teacher, and a beautiful human being. When you encounter Saida you know what it is to feel truly alive.
Timothy Freke, Stand-up PhilosopherAuthor of Lucid Living & Soul Story
Timothy Freke, Stand-up Philosopher
As a healing practitioner, I really prize myself on creating a lot of safety. I do a lot of trauma recovery work with people and so I have very high standards of safety and what it means to hold space. Everything from their body language to their tone of voice and the questions they ask and their curiosity and their profound collective knowledge immediately started to put me at ease. I found myself able to drop my guard pretty immediately which of course I was not expecting to be able to do and from there we were able to do some really deep work and a profoundly short amount of time.
Lulu BonnerLulu’s Chocolate, Chi Nei Tsang Practitioner
Lulu Bonner
Dr. Saida has a classy, well-researched approach to the subject of sexuality and relationship which makes her work approachable for everyone who’s interested in exploring and embodying their Erotic Genius.
Joe PolishCreator of the Genius Network
Joe Polish
We had the pleasure and privilege of working with Dr. Saida and Aaron, with extraordinary results! We’ve done a lot of exploration of sexuality, but there’s something about their professional, kind, comfortable presence that allowed us to reach into our own bodies, and each other’s bodies, and really release some more energy that has afforded us a lot of pleasure in the last couple of days. Dr. Saida and Aaron are the most profound, sacred sexuality instructors that we’ve encountered, and having had the opportunity to write a number of books in this field, and meet a lot of people. Their level of integrity, their level of comfort in their own sexuality and bodies, their deep wisdom, their profound expertise, and clean energy, and their skillfulness is just unparalleled among anybody we’ve ever met.
Doug & Rachel Abrams, MDAuthors of the MultiOrgasmic Series
Doug & Rachel Abrams, MD
I have had the privilege of attending Dr. Saida’s workshops on numerous occasions. She is an excellent motivator, instructor, and mentor. I highly recommend her services. She is professional, inspirational, and an absolute delight to learn from.
Charlie CantrellFilm Producer, Co-Author of Einstein The Smallest Stallion
Charlie Cantrell
[Her] One of the things that I love most about the experience were the cues that we received about what to be paying attention to internally. It wasn’t something I had really thought about before. And using those cues deepened my sensation and also made me feel more present in the moment with my partner. [Him] I had forgotten how much hearing her voice and hearing her breathe, how much it turns me on and impacts me and just I feel it. And I agree with you, the breathing exercise, everything that we did brought us more deeply into the experience and we have had a wonderful and fulfilling sex life prior to the coaching and it was really nice to experience something that deepened it and kind of engaged us more.
Daniel & Jocelyn JohnsonAuthor of God Given Gift
Daniel & Jocelyn Johnson
Aaron shares his unique style of de-armoring that you will not find anywhere else. A practice session with Aaron leaves me in a state of no-mind afterwards: to just be, glow, and buzz with energy from my sex area into my every cell. I felt more feminine, soft, and sensual . . . the sexual part of me fully alive. It has been a pleasure to be a steady guide and encouragement in his growth as a professional in this field, where trusted, quality, male workers are scarce.
Susanne RoursgaardFounder of the Gaia Method
Susanne Roursgaard
I am a sex and relationship coach, so I’m in this industry and do a lot of this work, but I really admire Dr. Saida and Aaron, both their work individually, and I was super excited when I saw them come together! I thought the communication, the imaging, the seriousness of it was awesome. It was so much fun. We laughed, we had fun, we were turned on. It was great. We already had a really amazing sex class, so why would I want to take this class? Everything’s already great. But I think that’s the beauty of our sexuality and the depth and the expansion that can happen, because there’s always more to learn, there’s always more ways to grow.
Amanda & Mark TestaSex & Relationship Coach & Partner
Amanda & Mark Testa

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