A Comprehensive, University-style, Intimacy,
Relationship, & Sex Education Platform
Watch This 2-Minute Video to See How The Embodied Love University Changes Everything
No one ever taught you how to truly feel your body, deepen intimacy, and unlock effortless pleasure… Until now.
Intimacy is the impression we leave upon one another and communication is the one constant for crafting the relationship we desire
Shared values are the foundation upon which our relations are secured and the compass for fueling the commitments that keep us united.
Intimacy is the impression we leave upon one another, and communication is the one constant for crafting the relationships we desire.
Sex is the language of sacred union, and pleasure is the fuel that keeps us coming back together again for healthy, happy, highly satisfied relating.
If one of these is missing, your intimacy suffers. These are skills—
ones that you can learn and master through a combination of solo & partnered practices.
Here are the clinically tested & proven results from clients practicing our method:
A Step-by-Step Journey to Your Transformation
A curated experience based on your personalized profile—tailored to your needs.
Instant access to the 5 foundational practices—start feeling the shift immediately.
Unlock your first mini-course to access our entire podcast library.
Unlock your first mini-course & access our entire podcast library.
Instant access to the 5 foundational practices—start feeling the shift immediately.
The longer you stay, the more you play, the more you unlock.
Personalized Learning for Maximum Impact
Optimize your intimate life to unlock your full pleasure potential. Gain access to practices, live coaching, and expert teachings tailored to YOU.
Access research and protocols to become certified in Embodied Psychosexual Training. For therapists, coaches, and professionals wanting to integrate this groundbreaking work.
Pleasure as an essential ingredient of sexuality ,sexual health and sexual rights is reinforced in The Declaration on Sexual Pleasure which states the importance of placing sexual pleasure in the forefront of sexual health promotion, education and services, and policy.
Sexual Fluency:The capacity to confidently articulate and affirm their desires and preferences, and to understand and appreciate those of their partner. Like linguistic fluency, sexual fluency requires social and institutional support.
Sexual wellness isn’t a luxury.
It’s your birthright. And we’re here to help you claim it. The Embodied Love™ University is an interactive, community-minded platform where sexual literacy & fluency are encouraged and enhanced with our science-backed, proven system that is changing how the world makes love.
Our Mission
Embodied Love is the industry leader in relationship, intimacy & sexual education. We inspire clients to tap into their unlimited pleasure with our world-class, medically-endorsed, and clinically-proven courses. We confidently provide effective, simple skill-learning through our secure members-only platform designed to
support a life-long adventure of healthy, robust & satisfying intimacy.
We believe in the sexual sovereignty & erotic intelligence within every individual. We believe in nurturing the erotic individuation process. We believe in busting outdated frameworks that create neurosis & alienation from one’s own body & desire. We support curiosity & self-responsibility, invoking profound respect for one’s self & for others. We believe that a lighthearted, honest, & no-fluff approach is the best way to dispel misunderstandings while empowering exploration.
Pleasure and connection don’t come easy for many
What Will Your Story Be?
One of the most delicious things about Dr. Saida is her incredible life force and beauty. All of this passion pours from the pages of her book, inspiring her readers to open up to more and more of their own divine beauty. I love Saida and her incredible commitment to expanding pleasure on the planet!
Regena Thomashauer (aka Mama Gena)
Creatrix & CEO of the School of Womanly Arts
Aaron’s work is outstanding. I have been working and teaching in the field of sacred sexuality and conscious relating for many years and have received countless sessions and worked with many different people. My nose for quality is top notch, and this is what Aaron is: Top notch. If you EVER get the chance to work with him, GO FOR IT. He’s highly skilled, respective, conscious, and his hands are absolutely beyond magic. His book will show you how to do the same.
Sanna Sanita
Swedens Leading Sacred Sexuality & Consciousness Teacher
I had a session with Aaron, and I found that session to be incredibly useful. His integrity was very strong, and the boundaries were very clear, and his capacity and willingness to go with what was happening in the moment rather than something that was pre-prescribed or having an agenda. It was exactly what I needed in the moment, and it was very safe. I found Aaron to be incredibly trustworthy, which also means a lot, and some things shifted for me that I wasn’t even anticipating. I definitely recommend any sessions with Aaron individually.
Barbara Collier
Trauma Therapist
There was something about the authenticity and honesty in Aaron’s voice that interested my inner scientist, journalist, and therapist; moreover it whispered to the woman Signe. He had no ambitions, which gave me the unique experience to let go of control and judgement and allowed me to surrender. The experience was intense, a voyage into myself, to encounter any sensations that might arrive. He was like a Sherpa guide. With my own voice and breath, the pain transformed into pleasure. His touch gave me a compass that has set me off on a path to more tangible teaching and giving others this experience.
Signe Bentzen
Former Head of The Danish Sexology Union, Couples Counselor, Author, Tantric Sexologist
Dr. Saida demonstrates her genius for facilitating a rebuilding of the connection between our body, mind, heart and spirit. She is both a masterful educator and trusted counselor in bringing forth a brilliant method to both learn about and connect with one’s inner wisdom and consciousness. Moving far beyond simply toning the pelvic floor or stimulating arousable tissues, her EPSM Jade Egg practices are a powerful pathway toward self-understanding, self-acceptance and self-love.
Dr. Debra Wickman, FACOG
Aaron is the kind of person you notice right away. He radiates passion, depth, joy, compassion, and love, and so does his work. What differentiates Aaron’s techniques from all others that I’ve tried, is his ability to make you feel so comfortable, safe and loved; while releasing old traumas, shame and tensions. He makes healing pleasurable, simple, and fun! I have tried a lot in this field of work, but I can truly say that I have met no other as warm hearted, skilled, and professional as Aaron. His approach and techniques can forever change your body and your life. Aaron takes so much knowledge and makes it come together in ways that seem easy and understandable for even newcomers to grasp.
Gry Dagmar Schødt Møberg,
Therapist, Tantric Bodyworker, and Leadership Mentor
Dr. Saida is a truly inspirational instructor and writer who lives what she teaches. You can’t help but feel your own sense of joy and self-love expand in her presence. She has an extraordinary ability to assist other women in finding their own passion and spiritual paths. She is a gift to us all.
Dr. Rachel Carlton Abrams
Co-Author of The Multi-Orgasmic Woman & The Multi-Orgasmic Couple
Finally a course with detailed instructions, very sober, very noble, but very erotically intelligent tips and tricks on how to enhance pleasure with a male partner. I really am very fond of Aaron, I think he’s so pure and so full of heart in his approach to erotic intelligence and I think he’s giving the world another great gift!
Kirsten Stendevad
Author, Feminine Leadership
Dr. Saida Désilets is a lucid writer, a tender teacher, and a beautiful human being. When you encounter Saida you know what it is to feel truly alive.
Timothy Freke, Stand-up Philosopher
Author of Lucid Living & Soul Story
As a healing practitioner, I really prize myself on creating a lot of safety. I do a lot of trauma recovery work with people and so I have very high standards of safety and what it means to hold space. Everything from their body language to their tone of voice and the questions they ask and their curiosity and their profound collective knowledge immediately started to put me at ease. I found myself able to drop my guard pretty immediately which of course I was not expecting to be able to do and from there we were able to do some really deep work and a profoundly short amount of time.
Lulu Bonner
Lulu’s Chocolate, Chi Nei Tsang Practitioner
Dr. Saida has a classy, well-researched approach to the subject of sexuality and relationship which makes her work approachable for everyone who’s interested in exploring and embodying their Erotic Genius.
Joe Polish
Creator of the Genius Network
We had the pleasure and privilege of working with Dr. Saida and Aaron, with extraordinary results! We’ve done a lot of exploration of sexuality, but there’s something about their professional, kind, comfortable presence that allowed us to reach into our own bodies, and each other’s bodies, and really release some more energy that has afforded us a lot of pleasure in the last couple of days. Dr. Saida and Aaron are the most profound, sacred sexuality instructors that we’ve encountered, and having had the opportunity to write a number of books in this field, and meet a lot of people. Their level of integrity, their level of comfort in their own sexuality and bodies, their deep wisdom, their profound expertise, and clean energy, and their skillfulness is just unparalleled among anybody we’ve ever met.
Doug & Rachel Abrams, MD
Authors of the MultiOrgasmic Series
I have had the privilege of attending Dr. Saida’s workshops on numerous occasions. She is an excellent motivator, instructor, and mentor. I highly recommend her services. She is professional, inspirational, and an absolute delight to learn from.
Charlie Cantrell
Film Producer, Co-Author of Einstein The Smallest Stallion
[Her] One of the things that I love most about the experience were the cues that we received about what to be paying attention to internally. It wasn’t something I had really thought about before. And using those cues deepened my sensation and also made me feel more present in the moment with my partner. [Him] I had forgotten how much hearing her voice and hearing her breathe, how much it turns me on and impacts me and just I feel it. And I agree with you, the breathing exercise, everything that we did brought us more deeply into the experience and we have had a wonderful and fulfilling sex life prior to the coaching and it was really nice to experience something that deepened it and kind of engaged us more.
Daniel & Jocelyn Johnson
Author of God Given Gift
Aaron shares his unique style of de-armoring that you will not find anywhere else. A practice session with Aaron leaves me in a state of no-mind afterwards: to just be, glow, and buzz with energy from my sex area into my every cell. I felt more feminine, soft, and sensual . . . the sexual part of me fully alive. It has been a pleasure to be a steady guide and encouragement in his growth as a professional in this field, where trusted, quality, male workers are scarce.
Susanne Roursgaard
Founder of the Gaia Method
I am a sex and relationship coach, so I’m in this industry and do a lot of this work, but I really admire Dr. Saida and Aaron, both their work individually, and I was super excited when I saw them come together! I thought the communication, the imaging, the seriousness of it was awesome. It was so much fun. We laughed, we had fun, we were turned on. It was great. We already had a really amazing sex class, so why would I want to take this class? Everything’s already great. But I think that’s the beauty of our sexuality and the depth and the expansion that can happen, because there’s always more to learn, there’s always more ways to grow.
Amanda & Mark Testa
Sex & Relationship Coach & Partner
When the moment matters, knowledge is power—
and safety is sexy.
Whether you’re preparing for your own first time
or supporting someone else’s, this
space helps you explore consent, readiness, communication,
and what real intimacy can look and feel like.
Take me there.
Smart. Safe. Empowered. Real.
A new kind of sex education—rooted in science, guided by wisdom,
and designed to equip the next generation with the confidence, clarity,
and tools to make informed, embodied choices.
Take me there.
Where intimacy meets initiation.
Reignite your connection, heal invisible wounds, and learn the art of shared pleasure.
Whether you’re navigating disconnection or exploring new edges,
this space offers tools to touch the heart—and the heat—of your relationship.
Take me there.
Awaken the wisdom of your body,
reclaim your pleasure,and rewrite your sexual story on your own terms.
Whether you're reconnecting after years of shutdown or seeking to deepen the fire within,
this is your sacred space to remember who you are.
Take me there.
Come sit with us, where the taboo gets tender and the truth turns you on.
In these raw, soul-nourishing conversations, Aaron Michael and Dr. Saida open the door to the stories, science, and
secrets no one else is talking about. New episodes every other week.
Take me there.
This is where performance fades and power rises—from the inside out.
Discover what it means to be deeply embodied, sexually sovereign, and emotionally connected.
This is the new masculine—unfiltered, unapologetic, and turned all the way on.
Take me there.
Because love is more than chemistry—it's communication,
choice, and clarity.
Explore the undercurrents that shape your connections.
Attachment patterns,
boundaries, polarity... this is where you learn the skills for love that lasts and lights you up.
Take me there.
Your pleasure is the experiment. Your body is the guide.
In this erotic playground of curiosity, we unpack the science, explore the sensations,
and push the edges of what’s possible in your pleasure and your healing.
Take me there.
We have multiple levels of membership to serve different desires and appetites. Our EXPLORER level is free to anyone who has an open mind and a valid email address.
ELU is a comprehensive, university-style platform designed to teach deep intimacy, pleasure mastery, and relationship dynamics through science-backed practices, embodiment work, and expert-led courses.
Anyone who wants to explore, master, or optimize intimacy and connection.
Unlike traditional sex education or self-help books, ELU provides a fully immersive experience, blending:
ELU is a space for deep, mature discussions about intimacy and pleasure, taught with class, elegance, and respect. Our content is educational, professional, and transformative—not pornography.
This is the perfect time to learn. ELU teaches you how to develop intimacy with yourself first, so when you’re in a relationship, you enter it fully embodied, confident, and sexually fluent.
Even the best relationships have another level of connection waiting. ELU helps couples explore new realms of intimacy, communication, attachment, and deeper eroticism. Many couples say they feel like they’re “falling in love all over again.”
You are not alone. Many people face these challenges because no one ever taught us how to work with our bodies, minds, and emotions in a way that cultivates intimacy and pleasure. ELU will help you unlock a new relationship with yourself and your partner.
ELU provides cutting-edge psychosexual education that bridges the gap between traditional therapy and embodiment-based practices. You’ll gain:
Yes! Our professional track offers fully accredited certifications for those wanting to integrate this work into therapy, coaching, or holistic healing practices.
ELU offers multiple levels of membership, each unlocking more advanced content, live coaching, and expert Q&A. The longer you stay, the more you unlock. Starting with the foundational membership being completely free! Each new level of membership unlocks more. Filling out your profile helps personalize your experience. Then you will have access to the ELU foundational video trainings. This will set you up…
Your journey will begin with our ELU foundational video training that will set you up for success, both in and out of the bedroom.
Your love life, your intimacy, your pleasure—it’s time to take the first step.
Click the button below and we’ll walk you step-by-step through how to get started and make the most of your learning experience.
Current Points:
When the moment matters, knowledge is power—
and safety is sexy.
Whether you’re preparing for your own first time
or supporting someone else’s, this
space helps you explore consent, readiness, communication,
and what real intimacy can look and feel like.
Take me there.
Smart. Safe. Empowered. Real.
A new kind of sex education—rooted in science, guided by wisdom,
and designed to equip the next generation with the confidence, clarity,
and tools to make informed, embodied choices.
Take me there.
Awaken the wisdom of your body,
reclaim your pleasure,and rewrite your sexual story on your own terms.
Whether you're reconnecting after years of shutdown or seeking to deepen the fire within,
this is your sacred space to remember who you are.
Take me there.
Where intimacy meets initiation.
Reignite your connection, heal invisible wounds, and learn the art of shared pleasure.
Whether you’re navigating disconnection or exploring new edges,
this space offers tools to touch the heart—and the heat—of your relationship.
Take me there.
Come sit with us, where the taboo gets tender and the truth turns you on.
In these raw, soul-nourishing conversations, Aaron Michael and Dr. Saida open the door to the stories, science, and
secrets no one else is talking about. New episodes every other week.
Take me there.
This is where performance fades and power rises—from the inside out.
Discover what it means to be deeply embodied, sexually sovereign, and emotionally connected.
This is the new masculine—unfiltered, unapologetic, and turned all the way on.
Take me there.
Because love is more than chemistry—it's communication,
choice, and clarity.
Explore the undercurrents that shape your connections.
Attachment patterns,
boundaries, polarity... this is where you learn the skills for love that lasts and lights you up.
Take me there.
Your pleasure is the experiment. Your body is the guide.
In this erotic playground of curiosity, we unpack the science, explore the sensations,
and push the edges of what’s possible in your pleasure and your healing.
Take me there.
CONGRATS
YOU’VE EARNED THE FOLLOWING
For a detailed breakdown, please navigate to the Points tab on your Account page. Newly earned points will appear upon refresh.
AI Index: /?elu_ai_txt=1 • Hub: /ai-index/ • Courses: /courses-extended/ • Podcasts: /podcasts-extended/ • Events: /events-extended/
