In this episode of the Embodied Love Lounge, we embark on an intimate exploration of fisting and extended orgasms. This two-part series takes you from the initial understanding and myths surrounding fisting to the explicit, detailed experiences that unfold when practiced with care and mutual trust.
Part 1: We introduce the concept of fisting, debunk common misconceptions, and explain the benefits it can bring to intimacy and connection between partners. We also delve into the extended orgasm, a state where pleasure can last for hours, creating a profound, trance-like experience.
Part 2: We share our personal, explicit journey, offering practical tips and insights for those curious to explore these practices. We emphasize the importance of preparation, patience, and being present with your partner. You’ll hear about the gradual process of opening, the physical and emotional sensations, and the extended orgasmic states that can be achieved.
This episode is perfect for those intrigued by fisting and eager to deepen their understanding of pleasure and intimacy. By sharing our experiences and techniques, we aim to provide a supportive and informative guide for anyone looking to enhance their sexual experiences and connect more deeply with their partner.
Tune in to discover how to create a safe, consensual, and deeply pleasurable experience that can transform your intimate moments into extraordinary journeys.
In the members-only erotic segment, Aaron Michael and Dr. Saida I take everything you heard in the free episode and bring it into the body. You’ll experience what it sounds and feels like when condom play becomes part of the foreplay—how to stay aroused even when soft, how to use rhythm, breath, and awareness to keep the energy flowing, and how to make safety sexy as hell.
This is where sex education meets real-world embodiment. If you’ve ever wanted to feel fully confident, fully turned on, and fully present during every part of intimacy, this uncensored episode will show you exactly how.
Forget “sex ed.” Forget fixing what’s broken. This is where your erotic genius wakes up and takes the wheel. We’re not playing the old polarity game. We show you what happens when two fully attuned bodies meet and the split between leader/follower dissolves into pure singularity—where pleasure stops being a guilty reward and becomes rocket fuel for your entire life.
This isn’t about collecting techniques. It’s about re-wiring your system to feel more, connect deeper, and move from curiosity instead of scripts and “shoulds.” You’ll learn how to turn arousal into usable energy (for love, work, creativity), how active receiving and adaptive giving create effortless flow, and how to land in parasympathetic, deeply nourishing states that expand your capacity without burnout.
Come for the bold conversation, stay for the transmission: a lived, embodied upgrade that makes pleasure your natural baseline—in bed, in your body, and in everything you build. If you’re ready to stop managing sex and start making love that changes your life, you’re in the right place.
This month, we’re breaking the internet’s favorite myth: that “control” means suppression.
No more denying your pleasure — it’s time to master it.
In this episode, Dr. Saida and Aaron Michael flip No Nut November on its head and show how men can use erotic energy as a fuel for vitality, creativity, and connection. Learn what real sexual mastery looks like — in your body, your relationship, and your life.
This isn’t abstinence. It’s advancement.
This episode includes a “members only erotic insert” that’s an intimate guided “wild bush” journey inspired by iMfolozi, South Africa—using a co-created fantasy that blends Dr. Saida’s raw wilderness experience, her felt state in that land, and how Aaron Michael weaves it into their bedroom so he too can taste the wild. It’s a star-lit, breath-driven erotic exploration that brings the bush into the body.
If you’re tired of “sex education” that’s all technique and zero soul… if you’re craving intimacy that feels primal instead of performative… if you want to remember what it’s like to feel lit up in every cell of your body — this conversation is your wake-up call.
📢This week’s erotic insert is a full blown detailed description of Dr. Saida’s play-by-play live experience of Aaron Michael’s conscious cock from entry, through orgasm, pauses and into post coital reflections.
And if you’re the guy listening? This is your chance to stop being average. Stop being the “fine” lover. Start being unforgettable.
If you’re a woman? You’ll finally get language for what you’ve felt in your body but couldn’t explain — and why settling for less has been screwing with your desire.
🔥 This isn’t about dick size. It’s about dick wisdom. And once you hear it, you won’t un-hear it.
Ever wish your sex life had a black belt? This episode is your invite to discover how.
Aaron once joked that being with Saida felt like she had a Judo Master in her pussy — and he wasn’t wrong. That kind of embodied power doesn’t just “happen.” It’s trained, it’s intentional, and it’s available to you.
In this conversation, you’ll learn how advanced jade egg practice can:
-Flip your sex life from “meh” to mind-blowing.
-Help you feel deeply safe, sensual, and alive in your own body.
-Rewire patterns of numbness, shutdown, or shame into connection and pleasure.
-Give your pussy the confidence and mastery it’s been craving.
In the member’s only version.
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When the moment matters, knowledge is power—
and safety is sexy.
Whether you’re preparing for your own first time
or supporting someone else’s, this
space helps you explore consent, readiness, communication,
and what real intimacy can look and feel like.
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Smart. Safe. Empowered. Real.
A new kind of sex education—rooted in science, guided by wisdom,
and designed to equip the next generation with the confidence, clarity,
and tools to make informed, embodied choices.
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Awaken the wisdom of your body,
reclaim your pleasure,and rewrite your sexual story on your own terms.
Whether you're reconnecting after years of shutdown or seeking to deepen the fire within,
this is your sacred space to remember who you are.
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Where intimacy meets initiation.
Reignite your connection, heal invisible wounds, and learn the art of shared pleasure.
Whether you’re navigating disconnection or exploring new edges,
this space offers tools to touch the heart—and the heat—of your relationship.
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Come sit with us, where the taboo gets tender and the truth turns you on.
In these raw, soul-nourishing conversations, Aaron Michael and Dr. Saida open the door to the stories, science, and
secrets no one else is talking about. New episodes every other week.
Take me there.
This is where performance fades and power rises—from the inside out.
Discover what it means to be deeply embodied, sexually sovereign, and emotionally connected.
This is the new masculine—unfiltered, unapologetic, and turned all the way on.
Take me there.
Because love is more than chemistry—it's communication,
choice, and clarity.
Explore the undercurrents that shape your connections.
Attachment patterns,
boundaries, polarity... this is where you learn the skills for love that lasts and lights you up.
Take me there.
Your pleasure is the experiment. Your body is the guide.
In this erotic playground of curiosity, we unpack the science, explore the sensations,
and push the edges of what’s possible in your pleasure and your healing.
Take me there.
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