Embodied Love University is a global platform dedicated to making intimacy simple. Founded by Aaron Michael, MA & Dr. Saida Désilets, their 40+ years experience combined with their scientifically-proven methodologies is revolutionizing intimacy, relationship & sex coaching for both individuals & couples. With three published books, two scientific papers, over 20 online courses, bespoke programs, & the Embodied Love Lounge Podcast, they are changing how the world makes love and helping people live connected.
Dr. Saida Désilets wants to live in a world filled with audacious, sexually sovereign people, living life on their own terms. As a TEDx speaker, researcher, counter-culture creatrix, body-philosopher, and author, her work has touched the lives of millions globally.
Dr. Saida’s innovative approach to PsychoSexuality, desire, and pleasure invites both the public and professionals to better understand the importance of accessing and cultivating their erotic genius.
Her medically-endorsed, trauma-transcendent method—Embodied PsychoSexual Method—integrates somatic awareness, neural and cellular re-patterning and robust reframes of sensuality and sex which all work in harmony to support the erotic individuation process. This work is an essential part of a medical protocol to support sexual optimization as well as part of the BrainTap App, and has made significant contribution to sexual medicine in co-authorship of a ground-breaking paper on Vulvoplasticity with Dr. Wickman.
Dr. Saida has two published books, contributed to 4 best-selling books, and has over 20 online courses exploring issues such as healing and reclamation post-trauma, transforming shame, reclaiming pleasure, and embracing one’s sexual sovereignty. Her pièce derésistance is her world-renowned,1000 hour accredited certification program for professionals supports and inspires practitioners from different modalities to lead their industry in the conversation about sexuality & pleasure.
The Embodied Love University, co-founded with Aaron Michael, is a comprehensive, sexual education platform that provides sexual fluency and free education for all. When not researching or creating transformational programs, Dr. Saida enjoys leading Wilderness Safaris in South Africa and swimming in the Aegean Sea.
Dr. Saida Désilets wants to live in a world filled with audacious, sexually sovereign people, living life on their own terms. As a Tedx speaker, counter-culture creatrix, and author, her scientifically proven work on sexual sovereignty globally impacts professionals and the public. When not facilitating transformational programs, Dr. Saida enjoys leading Wilderness Safaris in South Africa and swimming in the Aegean Sea.
Aaron Michael is a leading expert in intimacy, embodiment, and sexual wellness. He is the founder of The Suction Sex Method—a revolutionary practice that helps couples unlock deeper pleasure through penetrative intimacy while resolving common challenges like pain, numbness, and disconnection.
His journey began when his partner of six years developed vestibulodynia and intravaginal numbness. Through hands-on exploration and embodied healing, they not only overcame theseissues but discovered a powerful system that has since helped thousands. What began in Denmark quickly expanded into global impact, with Aaron becoming the lead content creator for the KAMA app and reaching over 100,000 people.
He now works with doctors to establish new medical protocols for resolving sexual dysfunction and redefining outdated beliefs—like “lasting longer isn’t a choice” and “good sex just doesn’t hurt.” His trauma-informed approach blends science, psychology, and embodied practice, eliminating the orgasm gap and empowering individuals and couples to achieve optimal sexual experiences.
With a master’s degree in Cognitive Semiotics, Aaron specialized in adult romantic attachment, courtship, and how the brain interprets love. He has over 15 years of experience as an embodiment coach, has worked hands-on with hundreds of women and men, and currently collaborates with psychosexual expert Dr. Saida Desilets to offer elite intimacy and relationship coaching worldwide.
Aaron is also the author of Optimal Sex Life and the creator of Bedroom Mastery. A lifelong traveler, he loves nature, languages, and discovering cultures through people and food.
Our talks, solo or together, are evocative, informative, entertaining, & life-changing, while our LIVE, IN-PERSON workshops (women, men, mixed & couples) are world renowned, grounded in 40+ years of experience & tried & true methodologies. We also have highly specialized Bespoke offerings available by application only.
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