Embodied Love University is a global platform dedicated to making intimacy simple. Founded by Aaron Michael, MA & Dr. Saida Désilets, their 40+ years experience combined with their scientifically-proven methodologies is revolutionizing intimacy, relationship & sex coaching for both individuals & couples. With three published books, two scientific papers, over 20 online courses, bespoke programs, & the Embodied Love Lounge Podcast, they are changing how the world makes love and helping people live connected.
Dr. Saida Désilets wants to live in a world filled with audacious, sexually sovereign people, living life on their own terms. As a TEDx speaker, researcher, counter-culture creatrix, body-philosopher, and author, her work has touched the lives of millions globally.
Dr. Saida’s innovative approach to PsychoSexuality, desire, and pleasure invites both the public and professionals to better understand the importance of accessing and cultivating their erotic genius.
Her medically-endorsed, trauma-transcendent method—Embodied PsychoSexual Method—integrates somatic awareness, neural and cellular re-patterning and robust reframes of sensuality and sex which all work in harmony to support the erotic individuation process. This work is an essential part of a medical protocol to support sexual optimization as well as part of the BrainTap App, and has made significant contribution to sexual medicine in co-authorship of a ground-breaking paper on Vulvoplasticity with Dr. Wickman.
Dr. Saida has two published books, contributed to 4 best-selling books, and has over 20 online courses exploring issues such as healing and reclamation post-trauma, transforming shame, reclaiming pleasure, and embracing one’s sexual sovereignty. Her pièce derésistance is her world-renowned,1000 hour accredited certification program for professionals supports and inspires practitioners from different modalities to lead their industry in the conversation about sexuality & pleasure.
The Embodied Love University, co-founded with Aaron Michael, is a comprehensive, sexual education platform that provides sexual fluency and free education for all. When not researching or creating transformational programs, Dr. Saida enjoys leading Wilderness Safaris in South Africa and swimming in the Aegean Sea.
Dr. Saida Désilets wants to live in a world filled with audacious, sexually sovereign people, living life on their own terms. As a Tedx speaker, counter-culture creatrix, and author, her scientifically proven work on sexual sovereignty globally impacts professionals and the public. When not facilitating transformational programs, Dr. Saida enjoys leading Wilderness Safaris in South Africa and swimming in the Aegean Sea.
Aaron Michael is a leading expert in intimacy, embodiment, and sexual wellness. He is the founder of The Suction Sex Method—a revolutionary practice that helps couples unlock deeper pleasure through penetrative intimacy while resolving common challenges like pain, numbness, and disconnection.
His journey began when his partner of six years developed vestibulodynia and intravaginal numbness. Through hands-on exploration and embodied healing, they not only overcame theseissues but discovered a powerful system that has since helped thousands. What began in Denmark quickly expanded into global impact, with Aaron becoming the lead content creator for the KAMA app and reaching over 100,000 people.
He now works with doctors to establish new medical protocols for resolving sexual dysfunction and redefining outdated beliefs—like “lasting longer isn’t a choice” and “good sex just doesn’t hurt.” His trauma-informed approach blends science, psychology, and embodied practice, eliminating the orgasm gap and empowering individuals and couples to achieve optimal sexual experiences.
With a master’s degree in Cognitive Semiotics, Aaron specialized in adult romantic attachment, courtship, and how the brain interprets love. He has over 15 years of experience as an embodiment coach, has worked hands-on with hundreds of women and men, and currently collaborates with psychosexual expert Dr. Saida Desilets to offer elite intimacy and relationship coaching worldwide.
Aaron is also the author of Optimal Sex Life and the creator of Bedroom Mastery. A lifelong traveler, he loves nature, languages, and discovering cultures through people and food.
Our talks, solo or together, are evocative, informative, entertaining, & life-changing, while our LIVE, IN-PERSON workshops (women, men, mixed & couples) are world renowned, grounded in 40+ years of experience & tried & true methodologies. We also have highly specialized Bespoke offerings available by application only.
Current Points:
When the moment matters, knowledge is power—
and safety is sexy.
Whether you’re preparing for your own first time
or supporting someone else’s, this
space helps you explore consent, readiness, communication,
and what real intimacy can look and feel like.
Take me there.
Smart. Safe. Empowered. Real.
A new kind of sex education—rooted in science, guided by wisdom,
and designed to equip the next generation with the confidence, clarity,
and tools to make informed, embodied choices.
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Awaken the wisdom of your body,
reclaim your pleasure,and rewrite your sexual story on your own terms.
Whether you're reconnecting after years of shutdown or seeking to deepen the fire within,
this is your sacred space to remember who you are.
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Where intimacy meets initiation.
Reignite your connection, heal invisible wounds, and learn the art of shared pleasure.
Whether you’re navigating disconnection or exploring new edges,
this space offers tools to touch the heart—and the heat—of your relationship.
Take me there.
Come sit with us, where the taboo gets tender and the truth turns you on.
In these raw, soul-nourishing conversations, Aaron Michael and Dr. Saida open the door to the stories, science, and
secrets no one else is talking about. New episodes every other week.
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This is where performance fades and power rises—from the inside out.
Discover what it means to be deeply embodied, sexually sovereign, and emotionally connected.
This is the new masculine—unfiltered, unapologetic, and turned all the way on.
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Because love is more than chemistry—it's communication,
choice, and clarity.
Explore the undercurrents that shape your connections.
Attachment patterns,
boundaries, polarity... this is where you learn the skills for love that lasts and lights you up.
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Your pleasure is the experiment. Your body is the guide.
In this erotic playground of curiosity, we unpack the science, explore the sensations,
and push the edges of what’s possible in your pleasure and your healing.
Take me there.
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Need a quick tour? This video will orient you and help you make the most of our platform.
From your Account Page, you can easily find everything you need!
You can:
See your lessons
Start the foundational lessons
Visit our community spaces
You’ll also notice a few helpful tabs:
Membership – See your current membership, update your profile, find useful links, or cancel your membership if needed.
Points – Check how many points you’ve earned by doing different tasks while learning here at Embodied Love University.
Refer and Earn – Share your special link with friends. When they join, you get points!
Course Purchases – View all the courses you’ve bought in one place.
Resume Lessons – Pick up right where you left off and keep learning without losing your spot.
Important Note: Ensure that you whitelist team@embodiedloveuniversity.com, so that you never miss an update or service email from us.
We’ve organized your learning experience into a few easy-to-follow sections:
Courses – These are full-length programs filled with many lessons and lectures to guide your growth.
Mini-Courses – Short and focused, these give you a powerful glimpse into our full courses and are packed with valuable insights.
Books & Audio – Explore books and audio teachings by Aaron & Saida to deepen your understanding and connection.
Lessons – See all the courses you’re currently enrolled in, and easily pick up where you left off.
Professional Training – Specialized programs designed to help you grow in your career and expand your skills.
Depending on your membership level, many lessons will already be unlocked for you. Others can be unlocked using the points you earn while exploring and learning on the platform.
Important Note:
Lessons that are included with your membership will become locked if your membership is canceled or if there’s a payment issue.
However, courses that you purchase outright are yours to keep forever—no matter what.
To purchase a class:
Visit any learning page, click on the course image to see a full overview, and follow the checkout steps to get started.
As you explore, engage, and grow within the platform, you’ll earn coins—our way of rewarding your commitment to learning and connection. These coins can be used to unlock new lessons, access special content, or enjoy exclusive perks.
Here’s how you can earn coins:
| Action | Coins | Limits |
|---|---|---|
| 🎥 Watch a Video Lesson | +2 coins | Up to 3 videos per day (6 coins max) |
| ❤️ Like a Post | +1 coin | Max 3 likes per day (3 coins max) |
| 💬 Leave a Comment (5+ words) | +3 coins | Max 3 comments per day (9 coins max) |
| ✍️ Write a Testimonial (Text) | +15 coins | Max 1 per lesson |
| 🎥 Submit a Video Testimonial | +40 coins | Max 1 per lesson |
| 📢 Share a Course on Social Media | +10 coins | Up to 2 shares per day (20 coins max) |
| 👥 Refer a Friend | +25 coins | Awarded once friend purchases a membership |
| ⭐️ Upgrade Your Membership | +50 coins | One-time bonus per tier upgrade |
| 🏁 Finish a Full Course | +20 coins | Max 2 courses per day (40 coins max) |
Keep an eye on your progress anytime!
Look to the bottom right corner of your screen for the coin tracker—it’s always there. Click it to see your most recent earnings in real time.
For a full history, head to your Account Page and click on the Points tab. There, you’ll find a detailed breakdown of everything you’ve earned.
If you’ve saved up enough coins, you’ll see the option to “Pay with MyCred” during checkout. Choosing this lets you complete your purchase entirely using your earned points—no payment needed!
Engage consistently, share mindfully, and don’t forget—your voice and your growth are valuable here.
Our community is designed to help you connect, express, and learn with others. Here’s what you’ll find and how to use it:
The activity stream is your live feed—a place to see what’s happening across the community in real time.
You can:
Post updates, reflections, or questions
Like or comment on other members’ posts
Share media like photos or links
Tag people using “@” followed by their username (e.g. @emilyrose)
Mention groups with “#” if enabled
Think of it like your personal journal meets social wall—great for quick shares and engaging with others on the go.
Forums are structured discussion spaces where conversations are organized by topic.
You can:
Ask questions or start discussions in topic-based forums
Join conversations by replying to threads
Search past discussions for helpful insights
These are perfect for deeper dialogue, shared experiences, or getting answers from both peers and guides.
Your profile is your personal space in the community.
From here, you can:
Add or update your bio, photo, and social links
View your activity, posts, replies, and group involvement
Manage notifications and privacy settings
Track your learning and community engagement
You can also see other members’ profiles, follow their posts, and message them privately (if messaging is enabled).
Groups are smaller spaces within the community centered around specific interests or topics.
Inside groups, you can:
Start focused discussions
Join group-only forums and feeds
Get updates and notifications tailored to your interests
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