This lesson introduces a more sensual and responsive approach to oral pleasure by focusing on how the mouth can be used with greater intention, contact, and rhythm. It emphasizes moving beyond mechanical technique so students can create more connection, arousal, and body-led responsiveness during the experience.
This lesson teaches a more effective and less tiring approach to hand stimulation by focusing on anatomy, blood flow, and rhythm rather than speed alone. Students learn how to use grip, pressure, and movement in a way that feels better for a partner while also making the experience more enjoyable and sustainable for themselves.
This lesson introduces a more sensual and responsive approach to oral sex by focusing on how to use the mouth with more fullness, rhythm, and connection. It teaches students to move beyond basic tongue techniques and instead create a more pleasurable experience through kissing, sound, and allowing the receiver’s body to guide the interaction.
This lesson brings anatomy, movement, and partner responsiveness together to help women create a more active and pleasurable sexual experience. It focuses on taking a more engaged role during penetration, using movement and body awareness to reduce pressure on a partner, increase personal pleasure, and build stronger intimacy.
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“I get many phone calls but there was something about the authenticity and honesty in Aaron’s voice that interested my inner scientist, journalist, and therapist; moreover it whispered
to the woman Signe. He had no ambitions, which gave me
the unique experience to let go of control and judgement and
allowed me to surrender. The experience was intense, very intense . . . a voyage into myself, to encounter any sensations that might arrive. He was like a Sherpa guide. With my own voice
and breath, the pain transformed into pleasure. His touch gave
me a compass that has set me off on a path to more tangible
teaching and giving others this experience. I’m still passing it
on, and this book can do the same for you.”
—Signe Bentzen, Author, Tantric Sexologist,
and Couples Counselor
“Aaron is the kind of person you notice right away. He radiates passion, depth, joy, compassion, and love, and so does
his work. What differentiates Aaron’s techniques from all
others that I’ve tried, is his ability to make you feel so comfortable, safe and loved; while releasing old traumas, shame
and tensions. He makes healing pleasurable, simple, and fun!
I have tried a lot in this field of work, but I can truly say that I
have met no other as warm hearted, skilled, and professional
as Aaron. His approach and techniques can forever change
your body and your life. I love this book. Aaron takes so much
knowledge and makes it come together in way that seems easy
and understandable for even newcomers to grasp.”
—Gry Dagmar Schødt Møberg, Tantric Bodyworker,
Therapist, and Leadership Mentor
I am a sex and relationship coach, so I’m in this industry and do a lot of this work, but I really admire Dr. Saida and Aaron, both their work individually, and I was super excited when I saw them come together! I thought the communication, the imaging, the seriousness of it was awesome. It was so much fun. We laughed, we had fun, we were turned on. It was great. We already had a really amazing sex class, so why would I want to take this class? Everything’s already great. But I think that’s the beauty of our sexuality and the depth and the expansion that can happen, because there’s always more to learn, there’s always more ways to grow.
Amanda & Mark Testa
Sex & Relationship Coach & Partner
[Her] One of the things that I love most about the experience were the cues that we received about what to be paying attention to internally. It wasn’t something I had really thought about before. And using those cues deepened my sensation and also made me feel more present in the moment with my partner. [Him] I had forgotten how much hearing her voice and hearing her breathe, how much it turns me on and impacts me and just I feel it. And I agree with you, the breathing exercise, everything that we did brought us more deeply into the experience and we have had a wonderful and fulfilling sex life prior to the coaching and it was really nice to experience something that deepened it and kind of engaged us more.
Daniel & Jocelyn Johnson
Author of God Given Gift
We had the pleasure and privilege of working with Dr. Saida and Aaron, with extraordinary results! We’ve done a lot of exploration of sexuality, but there’s something about their professional, kind, comfortable presence that allowed us to reach into our own bodies, and each other’s bodies, and really release some more energy that has afforded us a lot of pleasure in the last couple of days. Dr. Saida and Aaron are the most profound, sacred sexuality instructors that we’ve encountered, and having had the opportunity to write a number of books in this field, and meet a lot of people. Their level of integrity, their level of comfort in their own sexuality and bodies, their deep wisdom, their profound expertise, and clean energy, and their skillfulness is just unparalleled among anybody we’ve ever met.
Doug & Rachel Abrams, MD
Authors of the MultiOrgasmic Series
As a healing practitioner, I really prize myself on creating a lot of safety. I do a lot of trauma recovery work with people and so I have very high standards of safety and what it means to hold space. Everything from their body language to their tone of voice and the questions they ask and their curiosity and their profound collective knowledge immediately started to put me at ease. I found myself able to drop my guard pretty immediately which of course I was not expecting to be able to do and from there we were able to do some really deep work and a profoundly short amount of time.
Lulu Bonner
Lulu’s Chocolate, Chi Nei Tsang Practitioner
I had a session with Aaron, and I found that session to be incredibly useful. His integrity was very strong, and the boundaries were very clear, and his capacity and willingness to go with what was happening in the moment rather than something that was pre-prescribed or having an agenda. It was exactly what I needed in the moment, and it was very safe. I found Aaron to be incredibly trustworthy, which also means a lot, and some things shifted for me that I wasn’t even anticipating. I definitely recommend any sessions with Aaron individually.
Barbara Collier
Trauma Therapist
Finally a course with detailed instructions, very sober, very noble, but very erotically intelligent tips and tricks on how to enhance pleasure with a male partner. I really am very fond of Aaron, I think he’s so pure and so full of heart in his approach to erotic intelligence and I think he’s giving the world another great gift!
Kirsten Stendevad
Author, Feminine Leadership
Are you ready to transform how you see and experience your body—and your intimacy? 🌟 For so many, shame and societal judgments have clouded the most personal parts of their lives. Whether you’ve ever felt insecure about your body, struggled to fully relax into pleasure, or wished for deeper, more meaningful connections, this episode is for you.
In this episode we reveal how the revolutionary practice of genital adoration can help you:
🌸 Overcome shame and societal pressure to look perfect.
🌟 Reconnect with your body in a way that fosters true self-love.
🔥 Deepen intimacy with your partner by celebrating what makes each of you unique.
💖 Heal emotional wounds tied to your body through practical, empowering exercises.
This isn’t just about sex—it’s about rewriting the story you’ve been told about your body and embracing the confidence, joy, and connection you deserve.
In this episode of Embodied Love, I tackle one of the most pervasive yet rarely discussed issues in sexual health: genital numbness and dissociation. If you’ve ever felt disconnected from your body during intimacy, struggled to experience pleasure, or dealt with unexplained genital pain, this conversation is for you. Together, we explore the reasons why so many of us unknowingly train ourselves into numbness—and, more importantly, how we can reverse it.
This episode is personal and powerful because it shines a light on the real culprits behind sexual numbness, from trauma to cultural conditioning, bad sex education, and beyond. I also offer simple, actionable steps you can start using today to reconnect with your body and experience the pleasure you deserve. Whether you’re dealing with past sexual trauma or simply feel “numb,” this episode is packed with insights and practical tools to help you heal.
If you’re ready to take back your pleasure and feel more connected, alive, and empowered in your body, this is an episode you won’t want to miss.
In this special edition, two hour long, Embodied Love Lounge Episode we focus on the scandalous Jade Egg!
We invite you along to discover the true origin of the modern Jade Egg practice, where Aaron Michael interviews Dr. Saida to learn the back story and truth about this tiny tool of transformation.
We look at what it is, how it came to be known, all the myths and controversies about it, how it transforms a vagina of any age, and what it’s like to experience sexuality with a well-trained vagina both from the woman and her partner’s perspective.
Dr. Saida shares a ‘sneak peek’ into one of her embodied practices that supports a woman to gain more from both her solo and partnered experiences.
We laugh, we get real, and we reveal the true impact of a proper practice: from transforming trauma into thriving, to awakening new sensations and orgasms, to having the skills to co-create vibrant relationships.
In this episode, Aaron Michael and Dr. Saida delve into the fascinating world of cervical orgasms and their potential to induce psychedelic states.
Join us as we explore:
This episode is perfect for anyone looking to enhance their sexual pleasure and explore the transformative potential of psychedelic cervical orgasms.
The topic of orgasms remains an intriguing one. Did you know that there are over 63 ways to orgasm? Or that there might be something that lies beyond? We’re here to share this with you as well as how to get there. Orgasm is a sensitive subject, sometimes one rife with frustration and disappointment, other times one of boredom or mediocrity–yet it doesn’t have to be like this. We leave you with an important understanding of relaxed arousal and the importance of simmering your pleasure on a daily basis.
We kick things off with Taoist practices that have the power to maintain and even intensify passion over time. You’ll hear firsthand accounts and actionable tips that you can start using immediately to bring more fire into your love life.
Next, we discuss the delicate balance between professional life and personal intimacy. Learn practical strategies to manage your responsibilities while still making time for the love and connection that matters most.
Lastly, we delve into the emotional depths of your relationship. Discover how to connect on a deeper level with your partner, fostering a sense of closeness and intimacy that goes beyond the physical.
This episode is a must-listen if you’re looking to revitalize your relationship, deepen your emotional connection, and keep the passion burning bright. Tune in and transform your love life today!
In this episode of the EmbodiedLove Podcast, we dive into the heart of what keeps the passion alive in long-term relationships. Joined by the insightful and dynamic duo, Doug and Rachel Abrams, authors of the Multiorgasmic series, we explore the transformative practices and deep emotional connections that can reignite the spark in your relationship.
We kick things off with Taoist practices that have the power to maintain and even intensify passion over time. You’ll hear firsthand accounts and actionable tips that you can start using immediately to bring more fire into your love life.
Next, we discuss the delicate balance between professional life and personal intimacy. Learn practical strategies to manage your responsibilities while still making time for the love and connection that matters most.
Lastly, we delve into the emotional depths of your relationship. Discover how to connect on a deeper level with your partner, fostering a sense of closeness and intimacy that goes beyond the physical.
This episode is a must-listen if you’re looking to revitalize your relationship, deepen your emotional connection, and keep the passion burning bright. Tune in and transform your love life today!
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You don’t need a script. You don’t need to edit. Just press record, tell us what this journey meant to you, and know that someone out there will be better because you shared it.
We’re listening. They’re waiting. Let’s inspire together.
When someone is unsure, hesitant, or simply looking for something real—they turn to stories. Honest ones. Like yours.
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