No matter your current situation or experience, 9 Naughty Nights is designed to guide you on a journey to a more fulfilling, intimate, and pleasurable connection with your partner.
To get you started we created a playlist of sex positions absolutely free.
This lesson focuses on the importance of staying present in the body rather than becoming overly focused on performance. It highlights how awareness, pacing, and mutual responsiveness can improve both physical pleasure and emotional connection.
This lesson explains how penetration can feel better when it’s guided by coordination rather than force. Instead of relying on heavy thrusting or physical impact, it demonstrates how body guidance, controlled movement, and partner positioning can create deeper arousal and comfort. These adjustments help partners stay connected while creating more pleasurable sensations.
This lesson challenges common misconceptions about sexual confidence and performance. Instead of relying on size or intensity, it highlights how confidence often comes from understanding your partner’s pleasure and using different forms of stimulation to build arousal. By focusing on responsiveness and awareness, partners can create stronger connection and more satisfying experiences.
This lesson explores how to make doggy-style positions more comfortable and pleasurable by building anticipation instead of rushing into penetration. It explains how pacing, teasing, and gradual entry can increase arousal while reducing discomfort. By paying attention to body signals and communication, partners can turn a common position into a more connected and pleasurable experience.
This lesson focuses on the importance of staying connected to your own sensations and pleasure during intimacy. It explains how many people become overly focused on their partner’s experience instead of paying attention to their own body. By learning to move the hips, adjust positioning, and stay present with physical sensations, partners can create a more balanced and enjoyable experience for both people.
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I am a sex and relationship coach, so I’m in this industry and do a lot of this work, but I really admire Dr. Saida and Aaron, both their work individually, and I was super excited when I saw them come together! I thought the communication, the imaging, the seriousness of it was awesome. It was so much fun. We laughed, we had fun, we were turned on. It was great. We already had a really amazing sex class, so why would I want to take this class? Everything’s already great. But I think that’s the beauty of our sexuality and the depth and the expansion that can happen, because there’s always more to learn, there’s always more ways to grow.
Amanda & Mark Testa
Sex & Relationship Coach & Partner
[Her] One of the things that I love most about the experience were the cues that we received about what to be paying attention to internally. It wasn’t something I had really thought about before. And using those cues deepened my sensation and also made me feel more present in the moment with my partner. [Him] I had forgotten how much hearing her voice and hearing her breathe, how much it turns me on and impacts me and just I feel it. And I agree with you, the breathing exercise, everything that we did brought us more deeply into the experience and we have had a wonderful and fulfilling sex life prior to the coaching and it was really nice to experience something that deepened it and kind of engaged us more.
Daniel & Jocelyn Johnson
Author of God Given Gift
We had the pleasure and privilege of working with Dr. Saida and Aaron, with extraordinary results! We’ve done a lot of exploration of sexuality, but there’s something about their professional, kind, comfortable presence that allowed us to reach into our own bodies, and each other’s bodies, and really release some more energy that has afforded us a lot of pleasure in the last couple of days. Dr. Saida and Aaron are the most profound, sacred sexuality instructors that we’ve encountered, and having had the opportunity to write a number of books in this field, and meet a lot of people. Their level of integrity, their level of comfort in their own sexuality and bodies, their deep wisdom, their profound expertise, and clean energy, and their skillfulness is just unparalleled among anybody we’ve ever met.
Doug & Rachel Abrams, MD
Authors of the MultiOrgasmic Series
As a healing practitioner, I really prize myself on creating a lot of safety. I do a lot of trauma recovery work with people and so I have very high standards of safety and what it means to hold space. Everything from their body language to their tone of voice and the questions they ask and their curiosity and their profound collective knowledge immediately started to put me at ease. I found myself able to drop my guard pretty immediately which of course I was not expecting to be able to do and from there we were able to do some really deep work and a profoundly short amount of time.
Lulu Bonner
Lulu’s Chocolate, Chi Nei Tsang Practitioner
I had a session with Aaron, and I found that session to be incredibly useful. His integrity was very strong, and the boundaries were very clear, and his capacity and willingness to go with what was happening in the moment rather than something that was pre-prescribed or having an agenda. It was exactly what I needed in the moment, and it was very safe. I found Aaron to be incredibly trustworthy, which also means a lot, and some things shifted for me that I wasn’t even anticipating. I definitely recommend any sessions with Aaron individually.
Barbara Collier
Trauma Therapist
Finally a course with detailed instructions, very sober, very noble, but very erotically intelligent tips and tricks on how to enhance pleasure with a male partner. I really am very fond of Aaron, I think he’s so pure and so full of heart in his approach to erotic intelligence and I think he’s giving the world another great gift!
Kirsten Stendevad
Author, Feminine Leadership
Aaron is the kind of person you notice right away. He radiates passion, depth, joy, compassion, and love, and so does his work. What differentiates Aaron’s techniques from all others that I’ve tried, is his ability to make you feel so comfortable, safe and loved; while releasing old traumas, shame and tensions. He makes healing pleasurable, simple, and fun! I have tried a lot in this field of work, but I can truly say that I have met no other as warm hearted, skilled, and professional as Aaron. His approach and techniques can forever change your body and your life. Aaron takes so much knowledge and makes it come together in ways that seem easy and understandable for even newcomers to grasp.
Gry Dagmar Schødt Møberg,
Therapist, Tantric Bodyworker, and Leadership Mentor
There was something about the authenticity and honesty in Aaron’s voice that interested my inner scientist, journalist, and therapist; moreover it whispered to the woman Signe. He had no ambitions, which gave me the unique experience to let go of control and judgement and allowed me to surrender. The experience was intense, a voyage into myself, to encounter any sensations that might arrive. He was like a Sherpa guide. With my own voice and breath, the pain transformed into pleasure. His touch gave me a compass that has set me off on a path to more tangible teaching and giving others this experience.
Signe Bentzen
Former Head of The Danish Sexology Union, Couples Counselor, Author, Tantric Sexologist
Aaron’s work is outstanding. I have been working and teaching in the field of sacred sexuality and conscious relating for many years and have received countless sessions and worked with many different people. My nose for quality is top notch, and this is what Aaron is: Top notch. If you EVER get the chance to work with him, GO FOR IT. He’s highly skilled, respective, conscious, and his hands are absolutely beyond magic. His book will show you how to do the same.
Sanna Sanita
Swedens Leading Sacred Sexuality & Consciousness Teacher
Aaron shares his unique style of de-armoring that you will not find anywhere else. A practice session with Aaron leaves me in a state of no-mind afterwards: to just be, glow, and buzz with energy from my sex area into my every cell. I felt more feminine, soft, and sensual . . . the sexual part of me fully alive. It has been a pleasure to be a steady guide and encouragement in his growth as a professional in this field, where trusted, quality, male workers are scarce.
Susanne Roursgaard
Founder of the Gaia Method
I have had the privilege of attending Dr. Saida’s workshops on numerous occasions. She is an excellent motivator, instructor, and mentor. I highly recommend her services. She is professional, inspirational, and an absolute delight to learn from.
Charlie Cantrell
Film Producer, Co-Author of Einstein The Smallest Stallion
Dr. Saida Désilets is a lucid writer, a tender teacher, and a beautiful human being. When you encounter Saida you know what it is to feel truly alive.
Timothy Freke, Stand-up Philosopher
Author of Lucid Living & Soul Story
Dr. Saida has a classy, well-researched approach to the subject of sexuality and relationship which makes her work approachable for everyone who’s interested in exploring and embodying their Erotic Genius.
Joe Polish
Creator of the Genius Network
One of the most delicious things about Dr. Saida is her incredible life force and beauty. All of this passion pours from the pages of her book, inspiring her readers to open up to more and more of their own divine beauty. I love Saida and her incredible commitment to expanding pleasure on the planet!
Regena Thomashauer (aka Mama Gena)
Creatrix & CEO of the School of Womanly Arts
Dr. Saida is a truly inspirational instructor and writer who lives what she teaches. You can’t help but feel your own sense of joy and self-love expand in her presence. She has an extraordinary ability to assist other women in finding their own passion and spiritual paths. She is a gift to us all.
Dr. Rachel Carlton Abrams
Co-Author of The Multi-Orgasmic Woman & The Multi-Orgasmic Couple
Dr. Saida demonstrates her genius for facilitating a rebuilding of the connection between our body, mind, heart and spirit. She is both a masterful educator and trusted counselor in bringing forth a brilliant method to both learn about and connect with one’s inner wisdom and consciousness. Moving far beyond simply toning the pelvic floor or stimulating arousable tissues, her EPSM Jade Egg practices are a powerful pathway toward self-understanding, self-acceptance and self-love.
Dr. Debra Wickman, FACOG
“Me and my partner have had a wonderful time practising with the content of the videos of the female and masculine sexuality. The course is clear, natural, fun and revealing. We have discovered new ways to awake our pleasure playing with subtle and sweet sensations and master the sexual rythms of our bodies. Aaron and Saida will show you your finest and wildest sexuality”
We hope that our contribution will motivate other people to join the courses.
Monica
In my mind these videos are fun….. Just moving away from the regular routine is fun. Our sex life was awesome before the video, and now even better. Thank you.
Danny
The four videos in the mini course have been a fascinating exploration.
There is a lot of information packed into them. I’ve been learning to work with the Jade Egg from Dr. Saida Desilets’ material.
She is phenomenal! So, when she introduced this information on her mailing list, I wanted to check out what her latest work adventures were all about.
This is my first time to be introduced to the work of Aaron Michael, they make a wonderful teaching team sharing many things you are unlikely to have learned before.
This mini course is definitely worth checking out. Enjoy and have fun!
Many thanks to Dr. Saida and Aaron for putting the effort into sharing your experiences and knowledge!
All the best on your journey sharing the course!
Grace
Thanks for the free mini course.
I have enjoyed watching them and learning new things. Your content is incredibly valuable, and your delivery and explanations are clear to follow.
Can’t wait to put them into practice.
-Timi
Are you ready to transform how you see and experience your body—and your intimacy? 🌟 For so many, shame and societal judgments have clouded the most personal parts of their lives. Whether you’ve ever felt insecure about your body, struggled to fully relax into pleasure, or wished for deeper, more meaningful connections, this episode is for you.
In this episode we reveal how the revolutionary practice of genital adoration can help you:
🌸 Overcome shame and societal pressure to look perfect.
🌟 Reconnect with your body in a way that fosters true self-love.
🔥 Deepen intimacy with your partner by celebrating what makes each of you unique.
💖 Heal emotional wounds tied to your body through practical, empowering exercises.
This isn’t just about sex—it’s about rewriting the story you’ve been told about your body and embracing the confidence, joy, and connection you deserve.
What if sex during pregnancy wasn’t off-limits but an opportunity for deeper connection and unexpected pleasure?
Join us with Dr. Craig and Dr. Lauren as we answer the questions you’ve been too shy to ask: Is it safe? How do changing bodies affect intimacy? And how can you stay connected with your partner?
Whether or not pregnancy is a factor for you, this episode has tips that even surprised us that anyone can use! We break down what’s safe, explore how pregnancy can heighten sensations, and share practical tips for keeping intimacy enjoyable in every trimester. This episode is your guide to feeling confident, informed, and empowered about sex during pregnancy.
Ready to embrace this transformative journey with curiosity and joy? Click play and let’s dive in.
Here’s what’s in it for you:
🔥 Unlock deeper, more connected pleasure without force or friction.
🔥 Discover the secret to full-body intimacy that feels natural and electric.
🔥 Learn how to reignite passion, break free from routine, and experience sex like never before.
This isn’t just better sex—it’s a total game-changer. Click play now to discover what you’ve been missing.
Imagine if, instead of just “holding back” for No Nut November, you could use this time to elevate your sexual experience—taking it to a level where you feel in control and where pleasure isn’t just fleeting but leaves you feeling deeply connected and recharged.
In this episode, you’ll learn what it truly means to choose how you experience intimacy, going beyond the highs and lows of peak orgasms to reach a place of lasting connection and satisfaction with your partner. Through real stories and practical tips, you’ll discover how cultivating “Nut Mastery” can help you create intimacy that endures, carrying that powerful sense of pleasure and connection beyond the bedroom.
If you’re ready to transform how you connect with your partner, feel energized rather than drained, and bring more mindful, lasting intimacy into your life, this episode offers insights and tools to make that happen.
You can also follow Aaron Michael’s “Master Ur Nut” No-Nut-November on IG @suctionsex where he is posting daily: relevant information, IG live coaching, and tracking his sexual practice for the entire month.
If you want to take a deeper dive and master your sexual solo practice on your own or with the help of your partner, then you simply must take a look at the groundbreaking, doctor approved system YeahFap.com.
Together, we’ll look at why oral sex sometimes feels like a chore and ways to break free of that, how to use each of the senses—sight, sound, taste, smell, and touch—to make the experience sensual and meaningful, and how to shift from giving out of obligation to truly enjoying each moment.
In this episode of the Embodied Love Lounge, we’re taking a bold step into the heart of what it truly means to be a great lover. You’ve seen the clichés in movies, heard the myths in popular culture, but we’re here to tell you—there’s so much more to intimacy than what’s on the surface. Together, we explore the real essence of good sex and redefine what it means to have a good cock and good pussy in a way that fosters deep, lasting connections.
This isn’t just another conversation about sex—it’s about transforming the way you think and feel about intimacy. We’ll talk about the pitfalls of friction-based sex, the unrealistic expectations that might be holding you back, and most importantly, how you can cultivate a more mindful, connected approach to being a lover. If you’ve ever felt like there’s more to explore in your relationships, or if you’re seeking a deeper understanding of your own desires, this episode is for you.
We’re excited to share our insights with you, helping you unlock the secrets to truly fulfilling intimacy. Whether you’re in a relationship or navigating your own journey, we invite you to join us as we dive into the practices and perspectives that can elevate your love life to a whole new level.
This conversation is about embracing authentic, pleasurable intimacy—because you deserve relationships that not only satisfy but also light you up from within.
Let’s redefine what it means to be a great lover, together.
Join us in this captivating episode of the EmbodiedLove Podcast as we explore the transformative power of Eros in leadership. Discover how integrating sensuality and authority can elevate your leadership to new heights. With insights from Pamela von Sabljar, this discussion will empower you to lead with passion, authenticity, and a dynamic presence that inspires and motivates.
Tune in now to transform how you lead and inspire with sensuality and strength.
If you’re curious about fisting or eager to learn how to experience orgasms that can last for hours, this episode is for you. We discuss the physical and emotional benefits, practical tips for getting started, and the importance of creating a safe and comfortable environment. By understanding these practices, you can unlock new levels of pleasure and connection with your partner.
Whether you’re a seasoned explorer or just beginning to expand your sexual horizons, our compassionate and knowledgeable approach ensures you feel supported and informed every step of the way. Join us as we share personal stories, expert insights, and transformative techniques to elevate your intimate experiences.
Tune in and discover how to enhance your sexual pleasure and deepen your connection with your partner.
In this episode, Aaron Michael and Dr. Saida delve into the fascinating world of cervical orgasms and their potential to induce psychedelic states.
Join us as we explore:
This episode is perfect for anyone looking to enhance their sexual pleasure and explore the transformative potential of psychedelic cervical orgasms.
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