From ‘Good’ To ‘Amazing’ Sex—Why Hiring An Epic Sex Coach Changes Everything. You can be having good sex and still feel unsatisfied, restless, or quietly disconnected. This episode speaks to the moment when nothing is “wrong,” but something in your body knows it’s not enough. Aaron Michael and Dr. Saida share why people turn to bespoke sex coaching when talking, adjusting, and trying harder no longer touch the real ache underneath. This conversation is about being met in your desire, your body, and your truth—without guessing, shrinking, or settling for fine. Want the part we can’t release publicly? Upgrade to Curious Explorer to hear the members-only Erotic Insert, where you’ll hear us navigate real-time sensation, communication, and adaptation—turning “good” into undeniable. If you’ve been carrying this quietly and wondering whether there’s more, this episode will feel like recognition.

Turn-taking sex sounds fair—but it quietly kills pleasure.

In this episode, Dr. Saida Désilets and Aaron Michael reveal why sex so often feels mechanical, one-sided, or effortful—especially during penetration. They unpack how turn-taking creates passivity, friction, and the pleasure gap, and why advice like “just relax” never worked.

This conversation names what your body has already been sensing—and opens the door to a different way of experiencing sex.

If you’ve been blaming your partner for the lack of intimacy, this episode will make you squirm — because it exposes the exact behaviors you do that shut sex, desire, and connection down. Dr. Saida and Aaron dismantle the real patterns behind stuck relationships: pretending you’re “fine,” acting like your partner is the broken one, refusing to receive even basic generosity, and assuming that if something isn’t pleasurable immediately, it means something is wrong. You’ll hear how these unconscious habits erode trust, collapse arousal, and keep you looping the same fights for years.

You’ll learn why your body shuts down mid-desire, how fear masquerades as logic (“they need to change first”), and how your comfort zone quietly kills erotic energy. If you’re tired of numbness, resentment, anxiety, or that awful sense of feeling unseen during intimacy, this episode hands you the truth your relationship has been starving for: your pleasure, your safety, and your connection won’t expand until you do.

Forget “sex ed.” Forget fixing what’s broken. This is where your erotic genius wakes up and takes the wheel. We’re not playing the old polarity game. We show you what happens when two fully attuned bodies meet and the split between leader/follower dissolves into pure singularity—where pleasure stops being a guilty reward and becomes rocket fuel for your entire life.

If you’ve ever had a partner hesitate about using a condom—or maybe you’ve felt the awkward drop in energy yourself—this episode will change how you see that moment forever. I’m talking about the real condom conversation: why so many people still avoid it, how shame and performance anxiety sabotage connection, and how to turn protection into pure turn-on.

You’ll hear Aaron Michael and Dr. Saida unpack the myths that condoms “kill the mood,” explore what actually causes erection loss, and reveal why confidence and care are the ultimate aphrodisiacs. If you want sex that feels safe, hot, and deeply connected, this is where your new story begins.

Forget “sex ed.” Forget fixing what’s broken. This is where your erotic genius wakes up and takes the wheel. We’re not playing the old polarity game. We show you what happens when two fully attuned bodies meet and the split between leader/follower dissolves into pure singularity—where pleasure stops being a guilty reward and becomes rocket fuel for your entire life.

This isn’t about collecting techniques. It’s about re-wiring your system to feel more, connect deeper, and move from curiosity instead of scripts and “shoulds.” You’ll learn how to turn arousal into usable energy (for love, work, creativity), how active receiving and adaptive giving create effortless flow, and how to land in parasympathetic, deeply nourishing states that expand your capacity without burnout.

Come for the bold conversation, stay for the transmission: a lived, embodied upgrade that makes pleasure your natural baseline—in bed, in your body, and in everything you build. If you’re ready to stop managing sex and start making love that changes your life, you’re in the right place.